I had a really useful meeting with the OT, and she showed me lots of gadgets, so over the next few days I'll post some links and pics for things that she says are very helpful for those of us with limited dexterity
The first thing is a plug tug - it's so simple but makes it easier to pull plugs out of wall sockets

And it's pretty cheap too, I found them for £3.83 at
Complete care shopShe gave me a catalogue for Able 2, which has masses of stuff. Normally I glaze over when I see these sorts of mags, because it's all so frightening, but tucked away are some other real gems, like grppers and tap turners and kitchen knives. I post more tomorrow, but gotta dash now
Sylvia xx
Be kinder than is necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle